The mistake I made when I first tried to "lean in", was that I thought I had to do it by myself. I thought the onus was on me to pave the way for the women around me, to push for progress by being the best I could be. I didn't realise that attitude alone… Continue reading You Can’t Go It Alone
What if what thought you wanted was not actually what you needed? I thought I wanted six new coaching clients to start with me at once. I thought I wanted all my coaching clients to start at the same time, from now on. I thought I wanted more structure, more framing, in order to give… Continue reading What If What You Want Is Not What You Need?
We can have this image in our heads – a clear plan for how things should be. But that doesn’t mean they will work out that way. It doesn’t matter how much effort you put into it. It doesn’t matter how good it should be. It doesn’t matter how good it looks. None of this… Continue reading Accepting Defeat (In Order To Win)
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we got things right first time? No messy mistakes, no second chances needed. No practice required, simply perfection. But life doesn’t work like that, does it? Life is messy and unpredictable and rarely goes how we want or expect it to be. So, where does that leave us? If we’ve… Continue reading It’s Never Too Late (To Start All Over Again)
Not in the theoretical sense of accepting that I've done "enough". Or the literal sense of not using the word "busy" when people ask how I am. I am truly letting go of being busy in a practical sense - I am making a conscious decision to do less. To be less productive. To be… Continue reading Letting Go of Being Busy