Life Experience

What If What You Want Is Not What You Need?

What if what thought you wanted was not actually what you needed? I thought I wanted six new coaching clients to start with me at once. I thought I wanted all my coaching clients to start at the same time, from now on. I thought I wanted more structure, more framing, in order to give… Continue reading What If What You Want Is Not What You Need?

Life Experience

Accepting Defeat (In Order To Win)

We can have this image in our heads – a clear plan for how things should be. But that doesn’t mean they will work out that way. It doesn’t matter how much effort you put into it. It doesn’t matter how good it should be. It doesn’t matter how good it looks. None of this… Continue reading Accepting Defeat (In Order To Win)

Life Experience

What Are You Willing To Give Up To Have The Life You Say You Want?

We say we want change, but that’s not true. We only want the change that we want. We like surprises that we want. We want things on our terms. But when you choose to do something different with your life – you choose to step off the beaten path and live wholeheartedly – you give… Continue reading What Are You Willing To Give Up To Have The Life You Say You Want?

Life Experience

I’m Figuring It All Out As I Go Along

Confession time. In case it wasn’t already painfully obvious: I don’t have all the answers. I don’t know what I’m doing. I’m figuring it all out as I go along. This is why you see me tweak things. This is why I’m always testing things. This is why you see me change directions. I wish… Continue reading I’m Figuring It All Out As I Go Along

Life Experience, Self-Care

Writing To Refuel

I thought it seemed odd that when I had some time to explore “fun and play” that my default was to sit down and write. Writing would bring me the answer. Or, perhaps… Writing would BE the answer. Writing has always been a cathartic form of release to me – particularly putting pen to paper,… Continue reading Writing To Refuel