We are raised to fully understand what we are doing before we do it. We know that when we pick up a jigsaw puzzle, we can tell what the finished product will be by looking at the picture on the box. We know how many pieces it will have, and we know how difficult itContinue reading "The Blank Puzzle"
Breaking The Rules (That You’ve Made For Yourself!)
How often do you hear yourself say “I can’t do this” or “I should do that” every day? Whose voice is that? Who gets to decide what you can do or what you should do? It’s so easy for us to find ourselves trapped in prisons of our own making – we buy into theContinue reading "Breaking The Rules (That You’ve Made For Yourself!)"
What If What You Want Is Not What You Need?
What if what thought you wanted was not actually what you needed? I thought I wanted six new coaching clients to start with me at once. I thought I wanted all my coaching clients to start at the same time, from now on. I thought I wanted more structure, more framing, in order to giveContinue reading "What If What You Want Is Not What You Need?"
Accepting Defeat (In Order To Win)
We can have this image in our heads – a clear plan for how things should be. But that doesn’t mean they will work out that way. It doesn’t matter how much effort you put into it. It doesn’t matter how good it should be. It doesn’t matter how good it looks. None of thisContinue reading "Accepting Defeat (In Order To Win)"
When The Fire Goes Out
You start off with such passion. Such enthusiasm. Such energy. A determination to create something new. But. Slowly. Over time. Little by little. The fire goes out. The fire that burned so brightly when you first began is now no more. All you see is dust and ashes and debris. Where once was flames. NothingContinue reading "When The Fire Goes Out"
Siobhán Kangataran 